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Looking for Upholstery

I am happy when suddenly friends contact me. They are rarely told, dared to open up in front of me. Sifting chooses what they want to be delivered. For me, it was also included in the shared trust.

For them perhaps to come to me just to look for a second response other than what they had set. Obviously, I know, how much do I give the selected input later is nothing they had selected before dividing upset with me. Because according to them, invited me to speak a kind of convincing of anything they had to consider.

While it is not all the way. Then, why do I dare say something like this? Since I entered inside. Since I was someone who knew what I had to choose, but often I was upset for not so sure, and searched the amplifier.

To sum up, to anyone, I will always love it when you came to share concerns. Although I do not much give a view, I will always help you to believe in what you will choose. Because of what? Because you have chosen is the best. Because of the best for you, the more you know is you.

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Coffee This Morning


In the morning this coffee, I woke up with a spirit less than half. My morning was mediocre, but the bright sun out there. For some reason this week, I seemed to have lost a soul. Everything seemed to make me uncomfortable. Perhaps, the universe cooperation made unpalatable.

In a cup of coffee this morning, I am saving a little spirit that I believe will smolder, although who knows when the time comes. My morning actually tasted mediocre. Maybe I need a vacation, picnic or something. Take a gulp from morning to noon, noon to afternoon, afternoon to evening. It's okay my heart beat faster. I like to have friends. Friends are increasing wildly.

In the chill of a cup of coffee this morning. Take a sip deliberately slowly, longer than usual to warm disappear. Bitter. The content of sugar as nothing. Did you adjust the tartness of a heart condition, coffee?

After all, thank you for your company this morning. Although bitter, bitter and cold. At least I do not feel alone. Again.

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The Prioritization Process

The interests of each person are different. when a person is given a series of activities to do,  the prioritization of each person will be different. Because basically thinking everyone else would not be the same. whether for yourselves A foremost, for myself could be B or C. It's okay. There should be the same. We were not created to always similar.

Prioritized and set aside; wise compartmentalize was the case. When you think A is essential and urgent, it is put in the first place. Once a row to the last sequence.  When I was in the organization before, I never taught to choose the things that are important and urgent, important non-urgent, important not urgent, and the last is not important not urgent - which is more on the desire. In fact, the selection is based on several elements of highly influential, so I would be able to distinguish between needs and desires.

The previous paragraph is the theory. How To practice? Well, here's the most difficult. Sometimes I was hard to focus, did I already know what should be done and what should be left out. However, the view on the right and on the left is much more interesting than the priority order in sight. As a result, I was off to the side. Worse, much time is wasted because of it. Up to get started on the right track feels lazy.

Furthermore, what is my purpose to write this? Materials to remind me personally that it is important to set priorities. That respect other people's priorities are also important. Tomorrow, when I was to travel too far from the path of my priorities, help me dragged back. Pull my crown . Or at my forehead. That's all.

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The Manifestation of Disappointment

We must be very careful on a person's sense of disappointment. It looks like it's okay, but there was nothing. It was fine, but not being good. It looks like fun, even though injured. It seems happy, even though it was holding miserable. It looks like a laugh, but it was hurt by words.

The manifestation of disappointment was scary. When someone is good at covering, it will look like a mountain in the sea. We do not know the mountain base of anything in there, we know just at the top. When we look at it from the mainland, which is a relatively small. Mountain valley that we did not know before we try to explore and see by yourself. Perhaps, after swimming to the bottom, we will be amazed to find the mountain is not as small as it looks up there.

The manifestation of disappointment was scary. Like fallen leaves, when it was not rubbed, it can be accumulated by itself. Unlike the leaves are falling to the ground, so that in a few months or years it will disappear because the leaves are broken down by bacteria decomposing. As well as the sense of disappointment, whether you have accumulated is not resolved, it would be so disappointed in abundance. When it is not unforgivable and can not be explained, it will not go away by itself.

We often do not realize that we have been hurt. We often assume others have forgiven our mistakes that we do not realize. We do not know, what a joke as deep as a light that other people are hurt. We can never guess what is in a person's feeling. So, starting from now, let's try to be more careful to all acts, for all we said. The manifestation of disappointment was really scary.

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For Myself

The feeling, I want to reward myself by sending a letter to me personally. Needless preamble, obviously I know you hate all things that are too long-winded, right?

The first paragraph, I will tell thanks. For everything. Thank you for being personal seeks fun, though it absorbed its own ends, although in the end became a tedious inevitability. Thank you for being a good listener, though not for all the talk, at least for the first heart only. Thank you as sane, circumventing anything erratic, not too easy enslaved dream that would come true just yet, of course. Thank you for this strong. Thank you for this so tough. Thanks to learning from the mistakes of the past. Thanks always took a time to make amends, either from self-experience, whether from the experiences of your friends, either from the experiences of others who you have never met any goods once or twice.

Thanks for myself.

The second paragraph, I will express some hope. After this, be better than ever. After this, more honest with yourself. After all, weakness should only remain one twenty-four hours, more than that told it to leave. After this, trying to be someone who is not you will always be remembered, so it was a fun person. After this, doing the thousands, millions, as much to the infinite goodness. After this, be happy. After this,  be gracefully in accepting all destined, thanks a lot. After this, be diligent to apologize when doing wrong if harming others. Do not forget to thank you for whatever others have already given, though only a tip of the nail, trust them to give by sincerity.

by : asmatuqa

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Terkadang

Hei, Dek Kecil, apa kabar?
 
Kau pasti sudah menunggu-nunggu surat dariku untukmu. Tapi tak kunjung2 juga apa yang seharusnya kau dapatkan.
 
Aku terlalu asik dengan cerita-cerita baru yang datang tiba-tiba. Sampai akhirnya aku lupa batas wajarnya. Aku terlalu sibuk dengan urusanku sndiri. 
 
Hei, jika kau masih memberikan aku kesempatan, aku akan bilang mohon maafkan aku. Setiap orang berhak untuk dimaafkan juga memaafkan bukan, Dek?
 
Kalau Allah saja mau memaafkan hamba-Nya, apa hak diri untuk tak meminta dan dimintai maaf. Hehehe. Atau aku saja yang terlau melankolis saat ini. Kau, maklumi sajalah temanmu yang satu ini
Hei, aku mungkin meraba-raba apa yang sedang kau rasakan saat ini. 
 
Karena harapan tidaklah selalu sama dengan realita. Ingatlah Dek, bahwa dalam hidup terkadang ada episode yang kurang mnyenangkan. Anggap saja kita sedang menyelsaikan puzle-puzle kehidupan kita dengan melewatkan banyak hal, dan aku tahu kau tahu itu. Jadi aku tak perlu panjang-panjang lagi.
 
Ohya mumpung ingat, ada 1 nasehat yang pernah aku baca entah dimana, kira-kira mungkin seperti ini : bukan perkara siapa yang sampai duluan atau siapa yang terakhir sampai tujuan. Ini perihal proses menuju tujuan. Perihal pelajaran yang didapat selama proses.
 
Semoga kita langgeng persahabatannya Dek. Amin
 
Salam tidak smua yang beda diantara kita harus disamakan
Ochinnest

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